This is not a coaching post. This is not a post about discovering the deeper you. This is a post about taking responsibility for your result. This is a post to remind myself to walk the talk, and not just paying lip services.
Self confidence comes from within. But some places mentioned that you build self confidence from with-out. Example like learning a skill, achieving a goal, dressing well or changing your physical appearance. No doubt you will improve self confidence by these methods, but you don’t get to address the cause of the lack of self confidence.
A client wants me to train and coach his company staff. My response was, “seriously?”
“Why?” He asked.
“Some of your staff may resign after the training and coaching.”
He thought for awhile. Then smiled. “That’s good.” And I got the contract.
No, it’s not that game show, ‘Are You Smarter Than A Fifth Grader’. It’s something more serious. Chance upon an article on the local newspaper yesterday. An article about the words that our 10 – 11 years old kids are learning in school. I felt ashamed of myself after looking at the words.
90% of my clients believe that they are not good enough. The thing is our belief runs our life. Believing that they are not being good enough doesn’t create the inspiring life that they like to have. Do you have a similar belief? How would you possess the power to be in control when you believe that you are just not good enough?
This unsupportive belief causes many to live life below what they are capable of. Did you also live life below what you are capable of? Did you miss out some good opportunities because you are holding on to this belief?
A blockbuster, Life of Pi stirred up great discussion with my friends. Our discussion was opinionated but it revealed human’s behaviour. Our discussion revealed the origins of arguments and disappointments in life.
We talked about a wide array of topics regarding the movie. Our discussion range from the visual, to the lessons learned in the movie. Generally we found that most of our views are the same until he mentioned that he was disappointed with the theme.
Almost immediately I wanted to jump into the movie’s defence, but I held back. Several questions popped up two seconds later.
Public Presentation Mastery, the 1st program that gets you to speak with courage.
Overcoming of fear in public speaking is our focus. The 1st program that deals in-depth with fear. You don’t just learn powerful presentation techniques that enroll your audience. You don’t just learn advance presentation skills that move your audience. You learn to BE a powerful presenter inside out.
The pioneer batch just completed Public Presentation Mastery over the weekend. I’m so proud of them with their huge breakthrough in terms of presentation.
Raise of confidence, great enrollment with the audience and absolutely natural in presenting. These are some of their breakthroughs.
What they took away is that presentation is more than just showmanship, it’s soul-manship. Giving your presentation a soul!
Some of the participants shared at the end of the program.
“I am changed.”
“Initially it was torturous to present. But in the end, I wanted to present more.”
“I turned down my ego in the last 2 days and discovered that I had so much to improve.”
“This 2-days is definitely worth it.”
These sharing brought tears to my eyes. I didn’t expect such powerful sharing from the participants. It was tears of joy. People’s lives transformed in this program, and I’m thankful that I’m part of their transformation.
In the beginning, I carried a not that serious attitude in rolling out this Public Presentation Mastery. Things started to change. Gradually, I became serious and saw the value of doing it. After the pioneer batch, I told myself that I have to continue running it so that others can benefit from it.
With the number of lives that were transformed over the weekend, Public Presentation Mastery is definitely worth doing. I experienced joy and fulfillment in this whole process.
And so, we are turning this into a sustainable business model so that we can continue to add more value to others.
Right now, ideas are flowing to grow Public Presentation Mastery into something huge. Watch out for it!
Presentation With Soul-manship!